Real guys don't mind. This will help you to separate the men from the boys. Guys do like self confidence though. Even if you are self conscious about it, try not to show it.Do guys really not care if you have scars? When I was 2 1/2 I was beat and burnt and left with a scar?
I am a guy and I don't mind. My ex had some big scars and I think she is beautiful. Scars or not.
There has also been research on this, I accidentally stumbled upon this article today: http://www.bio-medicine.org/biology-news鈥?/a>
conclusion is that men don't mind women having scars and women don't either. Except when women are looking for short term relationships they find facial scars attractive in men.
Apart from all this, if you are not convinced, have you ever tried improving scar appearance by using silicone sheets? I used them myself ( when I just got my scars I really wanted to get rid of them) and they improved my scars where other products did not work.
My scars got less red, flat instead of raised en softer. Silicone sheeting also works on old scars.
But to be honest, I think you don't have to be self conscious. It does not bother us. Keep that in mind.
Not if it is nearly invisible. I can ignore blemishes if they are not an outstanding feature - sounds like your scar is not.
I've collected more scars throughout my life that I'm suprised I'm not uglier than I am (probably not possible). Chances are, another scar or two would probably make me look better by covering up the ones I already have.
Seriously, nobodys perfect. And you would not want to be with anyone who expects you to be perfect. It's an impossible standard.
So put on that skimpy suit and enjoy your summer.
Just remember to post pics or it didn't happen. ;)
Chica, I have over ten scars. Four are on my head, five on my stomach, and three are on my chest. I also have them on my knees, hands, feet, and a burn on my wrist. Every guy I have met so far thinks they're cool.
One guy, in South Carolina, thought they were gross, so I dumped him. I am chubby, so my scars show when I wear a tankini. I just try and deal with the looks, and stay away from the guys that think they are gross.
Personally, I think you are a strong person, like me. So just take my advice, flaunt them, and if people say stuff, ignore them! I went to tenth grade, with staples in my head, and didn't wear a bandana or anything. Sure, people made fun, but I walked with my head held high. Just show some courage, and the sky's the limit. You'll find Mr. Right someday.
Don't be self-conscious about the scar. That is your reminder of being a survivor of abuse not a victim. Plus I know many people that think scars are hot, it shows that you are tough and don't let anything bring you down. I have many scars and I am completely fine with them, they haven't stunted my ability of people thinking i'm cute [not calling myself cute or anything].
I think being truthful it would bother some guys if you had scars, guys who were probably very shallow.However if a guy is decent and likes you, for you and not just for your looks, it wouldn't bother him.
So yes some guys really do not care if you have scars.Hope you meet
such a guy.
i would probably ask her what caused it eventually. I wouldnt say anything the first four times I saw it, but the fifth time, i would ask.
If you told me a made up lie, i wouldn't know any better would I? U could make up five or six different causes for this scar, depending on the situation.
Think of it as a conversation-starter.
The right man wont thing about those things as flaws. He'll look past them and see the real YOU. when i say ';right man'; i dont mean there's only one guy for you who will think that. i mean someone who loves you for who you are, not if you have the most flawless skin cuz no one does.
i don't
i was like a bug magnet when i was little so i got a lot of bug bites
it's been so long now but my arms and legs are covered with little scars
i say show what you got and embrace your flaws
they're what makes you unique
there are guys out there that dig scars, and the nice guys that will love you for you, will love you for what you look like on the inside.
First off, the kinds of guys that would not want you because of a scar aren't important.
And second, a lot of guys don't care. In fact, I know several guys who are actually attracted to them.
http://earthclinic.com/CURES/scar.html
Here is a link for some natural remedies to get rid of scars, if you would like to do that.
1. guys dont care if they have scars
2. for girls it depends on the type of scar, yours shouldnt matter but my friend braam is a serious bmx-er and he got this Huge weird scar it covers like half his leg
it gives u a story 2 tell =]
u shouldnt let sumthin dat insignificant stop u 4rm havin funn
n if it DOES bother u dat much then thank god 4o da miracle of makeupp =]]
I don't think a scar would stop me from liking someone. Sometimes they even add mystique.
Most guys I know think scars are cool, unless they are left over from suicide attempts.
Scars are awesome. They are a permanent reminder of your past, sadly if it's a bad past then I guess they kind off suck.
the kind you have is totally fine in my opinion
no we all have a scar or 2
I have on on my head ): !! war wounds !!
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